That as far as Stargate goes, having even one relationship ever three years is pretty standard. To get involved with two women, in the space of two years, in comparision with other characters in the Stargate 'verse IS Kirking. Rodney, Ronin, Ford, Carson, Jack, Teal'c, Daniel, Weir, Teyla, etc.. Have had much, much less than one love interest per season. Which is why I buy the Kirking comments.