Warning labels aren't one of the things I get all exercised about, every six months when they become an Issue again in fandom. There are certain subjects I'm totally willing to revisit over and over again for the rest of my life, but that isn't really one of them, basically because it's become blindingly obvious to me that no solution will ever make everyone happy, and such is life.
However, just this one time, I want to say this.
As much as you, gentle reader, may hate accidentally reading a story that upsets or disturbs you in some way -- and I get that you hate it, I hear that -- that is exactly how much I hate being told before I even start the damn story that everything turns out all right in the end. I fucking *hate* that, because if the story is even remotely well-crafted, there was a perfectly good chance that I would undergo some amount of suspense and excitement while reading it, but not anymore. I hate it when people do it in the notes to their own stories, I hate it when people do it in recs, and I *really* hate it when people do it to my stories. I also don't want to be told that everything *doesn't* turn out all right in the end -- if I get warned for character death, I goddamn well want it to happen in the first three paragraphs, otherwise I consider it a spoiler.
Isn't it weird how fandom gets so freaky intense about protecting people from spoilers in canon (don't say it was a funny one! Don't say Ladon's going to be in it! Warn people if your story gives away the color of Rodney's cat as revealed last week!), and yet is totally blase about giving away the ending of fanfic before anyone has a chance to read it and think, even for a moment, Wow, I wonder how this is going to work out?
You see what I'm saying about the no-win situation? If you don't warn for unpleasantness, you'll piss off all those other people. If you do warn by giving away the ending, you'll piss me off. Warning labels are a fandom dead-end. Everything you do is wrong, so you just have to pick your poison.
I think of labeling and recs and that kind of thing as serving a function similar to movie trailers. I know what kind of stuff I like, and if someone's written that kind of thing, I want to know about it, and I also want to know what I'm probably not going to be into enough to spend my time on it. This is a sketchy proposition at best -- how many movies have you wasted your time on because the trailer looked really awesome, and yet, no? But, for example, take The Departed, which I saw not too long ago. I knew it was a Scorcese flick, and I know not only that I love him, but what kind of stories he's generally drawn to, so that helped. I also saw a bunch of commercials, which told me it was some kind of a gangster movie, which I took to mean it would probably be violent. I read a couple of reviews, wherein I was told that it was kind of a psychological thriller about the parallel lives of a gangster undercover with the cops and a cop undercover with gangster, and that the reviewers in question liked it. This is the kind of thing I want to know. I do not, under any circumstances, want to know the body count. I don't want to know that. I want to be aware that, given the setting, the plot, and the people involved, there could well be one, and then I want to watch the freaking movie. Equivalently, I don't mind vague warnings for "darkness" or "adult content" or whatever; that's fine to know, that helps me know the mood and milieu to expect. But then let me *read the story* to find out if it's the everybody-dies kind of darkness or the wow-close-call! kind.
Anyway. Like I said, I think it's just a decision that everyone who writes or recs has to make, knowing that they're helping some of their potential readers enjoy the story more and causing some of their potential readers to enjoy it less. You just make the call and then get on with your life.
However, just this one time, I want to say this.
As much as you, gentle reader, may hate accidentally reading a story that upsets or disturbs you in some way -- and I get that you hate it, I hear that -- that is exactly how much I hate being told before I even start the damn story that everything turns out all right in the end. I fucking *hate* that, because if the story is even remotely well-crafted, there was a perfectly good chance that I would undergo some amount of suspense and excitement while reading it, but not anymore. I hate it when people do it in the notes to their own stories, I hate it when people do it in recs, and I *really* hate it when people do it to my stories. I also don't want to be told that everything *doesn't* turn out all right in the end -- if I get warned for character death, I goddamn well want it to happen in the first three paragraphs, otherwise I consider it a spoiler.
Isn't it weird how fandom gets so freaky intense about protecting people from spoilers in canon (don't say it was a funny one! Don't say Ladon's going to be in it! Warn people if your story gives away the color of Rodney's cat as revealed last week!), and yet is totally blase about giving away the ending of fanfic before anyone has a chance to read it and think, even for a moment, Wow, I wonder how this is going to work out?
You see what I'm saying about the no-win situation? If you don't warn for unpleasantness, you'll piss off all those other people. If you do warn by giving away the ending, you'll piss me off. Warning labels are a fandom dead-end. Everything you do is wrong, so you just have to pick your poison.
I think of labeling and recs and that kind of thing as serving a function similar to movie trailers. I know what kind of stuff I like, and if someone's written that kind of thing, I want to know about it, and I also want to know what I'm probably not going to be into enough to spend my time on it. This is a sketchy proposition at best -- how many movies have you wasted your time on because the trailer looked really awesome, and yet, no? But, for example, take The Departed, which I saw not too long ago. I knew it was a Scorcese flick, and I know not only that I love him, but what kind of stories he's generally drawn to, so that helped. I also saw a bunch of commercials, which told me it was some kind of a gangster movie, which I took to mean it would probably be violent. I read a couple of reviews, wherein I was told that it was kind of a psychological thriller about the parallel lives of a gangster undercover with the cops and a cop undercover with gangster, and that the reviewers in question liked it. This is the kind of thing I want to know. I do not, under any circumstances, want to know the body count. I don't want to know that. I want to be aware that, given the setting, the plot, and the people involved, there could well be one, and then I want to watch the freaking movie. Equivalently, I don't mind vague warnings for "darkness" or "adult content" or whatever; that's fine to know, that helps me know the mood and milieu to expect. But then let me *read the story* to find out if it's the everybody-dies kind of darkness or the wow-close-call! kind.
Anyway. Like I said, I think it's just a decision that everyone who writes or recs has to make, knowing that they're helping some of their potential readers enjoy the story more and causing some of their potential readers to enjoy it less. You just make the call and then get on with your life.
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Date: 2007-01-02 06:43 pm (UTC)From:I've sort of made peace with pissing some people off, frankly, because I want to preserve (not to be TOO dramatic) the integrity of my own writing. I guess I just don't get it, because I'm NOT one of those sensitive readers. I can take what's thrown at me, and like it most of the time.
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Date: 2007-01-05 05:10 am (UTC)From:Truthfully, I don't really get it, either. As much as good fiction moves me emotionally, at the end of the day I'm always able to go, Look, that didn't actually happen. Rodney isn't dead, nobody got hurt, etc. It's a game of make-believe, and if it's a story you didn't like, fine, it's a story you didn't like. I've read a bazillion stories I didn't like, what's your point? *shrug* Hey, if everybody felt the same way abot everything, we'd argue a lot less, but we'd spend a lot more time bored, too, I suppose.
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Date: 2007-01-02 07:13 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2007-01-04 03:18 pm (UTC)From:Unfortunately, some sites make it very difficult to post coded warnings like that. For those that make it possible, though, it works.
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Date: 2007-01-02 07:55 pm (UTC)From:But I know I'm just going to have to continue to rage at (and mock) the delicate sensibilities of others. But I'll do it quietly. Really.
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Date: 2007-01-02 08:23 pm (UTC)From:I was relatively new at the time, though (and it was due South in a polite phase, at that) so I just got gently corrected regarding the definition of "death story." *g*
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Date: 2007-01-03 01:12 am (UTC)From:I mean, fanfiction has stretched if not exploded its generic limitations quite a lot recently, but I'd still argue that a large number of readers a lot of the time read for repetition and comfort rather than exploration and surprise. Personally, I go back and forth. There are times I adore getting surprised (like in pop, I used to enjoy not knowing who'd end with whom) but other times, I'd hate not to get my happy ending for my couple, not to have my generic expectations fulfilled...
I think it keeps on coming back to the debate I seem to be having nonstop lately (and sorry to drag it into your LJ, I guess), namely, that fanfic is *not* like regular literature insofar as we're already invested in the characters in ways we don't tend to be in most stories with characters we just met. As a result, we may also read for particular generic expectations and can get upset when these are not fulfilled (just like a romance reader may get upset when the couple doesn't live happily ever after or a mystery reader may bedisappointed when the story turns out to be *not* about solving a muder).
To me the not wanting to read death (or even unhappy ending or having my characters end up with someone other than whom I think they should be with) is simply an extension of not wanting to read even the bestest story in a fandom I don't care about. And I guess we all have different levels of what we need to know or not (like, some folks *will* read a fic even without knowing the fandom and others need to know pretty much every major plot point), but I don't think it's an either/or as much as a spectrum where most of us align somwhere in the middle...
And because of that spectrum, I think you are totally correct that everyone needs to decide for themselves...b/c the same thing can spoil one person and lack warning for another. I just updated my sGA rec page, and had a hard time putting fic in relevant categories, b/c it might spoil the plot (like, one fic I had should have gone into "notquitehuman," but that wasn't revealed until the end, so I ended up not putting it in there... otoh, if someone were to look for that particular genre, they wouldn't get to read that story...)
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Date: 2007-01-02 10:28 pm (UTC)From:Oh my God yes. I just... warnings have become crazy. I don't read death!fic because it's a forgone conclusion and I spend the entire story waiting for the author to kill someone and how... It's not why you should be reading a story.
I just... don't understand it really.
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Date: 2007-01-03 12:32 am (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2007-01-04 02:44 pm (UTC)From:As for character death... sometimes I like to be warned, and sometimes not. If the story has a dark or angsty setting, it's kind of unnecessary, as it can be expected. In some cases it completely destroys the story to have the warnings up. *shrug*
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Date: 2007-01-04 03:22 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2007-01-04 03:26 pm (UTC)From:Absolutely and hallelujah. I have serious issues with the way fanfic fandom has gotten so delicate and so sensitive that you practically have to warn if there's a left-handed red-haired character with a hangnail because God Forbid some left-handed red-haired reader should've had a Really Traumatic Experience with a hangnail at some point in their life and have, like, flashbacks if they were to wander into your story and read your hangnail scene all unprepared and unbraced. [facepalm]
When I first started posting fiction online back in the late eighties, there were no warnings. You posted your stuff in the adult area if it had adult stuff in it, which generally meant sex but could also mean anything else the movie censors might find disturbing, but if it was in the adult area then that was considered to be warning enough. Anyone who'd stated their age to the sysop and requested admittance to the adult area was assumed to be, well, adult enough to be responsible for what they read and to know what the [Back] button was for if they tripped over something they'd rather not read. People who were too delicate for such things were welcome to avoid the adult fiction area.
I've allowed myself to be persuaded to put warnings on some of my fiction in certain areas. I'll put general "sexual violence" or "dark themes" warnings if I have to, but I won't get any more specific than that if doing so would spoil something in the story.
Most of my stories written over the last... almost two years now, actually, have been fest fics, and one of the reasons I'm comfortable with them is that it's customary to post the prompt in the header. That being the case, there's usually not a lot to be spoiled, you know? I had no problem warning for "character death" on my ghost story because the murder was part of the prompt to which I was writing, and besides, the character was dead when the story started -- you have to get a ghost from somewhere, right? [wry smile] But I'm starting to move away from that and if I'm writing purely my own stories then I don't put spoilery warnings on them. I just don't. I know that'll lose me some readers but that's my choice to make and I'm hoping it'll gain me some others, and maybe encourage some other writers who think this whole warnings thing has just gotten ridiculous to refuse to go along with it as well.
But I've seen writers practically get on bended knee in their headers to assure readers that, "Everything comes out fine in the end! Really, I promise! Happy-happy!" when the story deals with violence and drama and whatever all else. Umm, gee, thanks for telling me. [sigh]
How do these people who insist on warnings for anything and everything manage in a bookstore??
Angie, who refuses to play that ridiculous game
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Date: 2007-01-04 03:38 pm (UTC)From:There is, as you say, no winning on the warnings issue. Some folks want them, some don't, and both sides have persuasive reasons. That's possibly why I keep trying to think of ways of winning anyway. :)
My favorite warning system was the one in Pros fandom, where you put all your warnings, notes, disclaimers, etc. in a separate "0" post--even if there *were* no warnings or notes or disclaimers--so the first-numbered post of your story started with the story, and nothing else. Some of the Automated Archive mailing software does the same thing, which I really like. It allows folks who want to be warned to have that option, and those that don't can just skip right to the story.
Unfortunately, while this works great on mailing lists and Usenet (well, you know, as far as *anything* works with thousands of people trying to coexist in gentle anarchy), the system breaks down on web pages and even Livejournal. In theory, it's possible to have a "0" post on LJ, but in practice I think most folks (me included) would be annoyed to have two posts for every story instead of just one. And on web pages, it's a bit awkward to have a teeny little separate file for each story just for notes and warnings. I've been thinking that maybe the best solution is to put all the notes and warnings at the end of the story instead of the beginning.
But then again, I also probably think about this kind of thing way too much anyway. :)
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Date: 2007-01-04 04:11 pm (UTC)From:I've seen the arguments go back and forth on whether warnings are a good thing. Should you warn for swearing (language)? Should you warn for character death? Should you warn for minor character death?
For the first three chapters of a long-winded fic I'm currently writing, I took the politically correct path and warned. Your rant, however, reminded me that what I like best about the shows my fandoms spring from is the element of surprise. When I first watched Blakes 7 I was shocked by Gan's death, but it was a good shock, because it showed that any character could go at any time. More recently, in Stargate fandom, Daniel's original death/ascension was splashed around beforehand, and for those who knew, it reduced the impact of the episode.
After thinking about it, I've decided to remove the warnings I had put up, and not use them in the future. Since I'm writing a gen AU, the more intense stuff won't come up anyway. If someone gets upset that I didn't warn them about a particularly sensitive character's demise... oh, well, at least I surprised them....
Thanks for the knock to the head, I think I needed it.
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Date: 2007-01-04 07:54 pm (UTC)From:When I entered fandom, I never used warnings; traditional fiction doesn't carry them (unless as a marketing tool), so I didn't feel they were necessary. As I came to understand the conventions of the community I'd joined, however, I began placing warnings in my headers, feeling that it was the appropriate and polite thing to do.
Now, I'm considering obscuring the warnings I give in some way as a courtesy to people who don't want them. I'm not sure how I'll do this, or even if I will, but I can certainly understand a reader's desire to allow a fic to speak for itself. Warnings are dreadful spoilers, aren't they?
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Date: 2007-01-04 11:11 pm (UTC)From:I am absolutely with you on this. I despise spoilers of any kind, and I prefer that I just don't get the warnings, etc, and even the *pairing* is an issue.
See, I got this rec yesterday for a story, but all it said was, GREAT STORY GO READ.
So I read. I find out oh, 1/3 to 1/2 of the way through that it was a pairing that I don't avoid, I just don't seek it out. Now, I'm kicking my own ass that I probably read some pairing label somewhere on some warning when it was posted and I passed by this really fascinating story that was beautifully written.
as an adjunct, and apropos of completely nothing, I hate it when the warnings and labels and disclaimers and rants and thanks are longer than the STORY. I'm sorry, nothing 100 words long needs that much explanation--and if it does, then, well--they did it wrong!
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Date: 2007-01-05 06:21 am (UTC)From:(darn Js...then again, after dealing with afandom that had Justin, Joey, and JC, I shouldn't complain :)
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Date: 2007-01-04 11:54 pm (UTC)From:(Here via
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If somebody has a multiple-post story at their LJ or home page, then it's easy enough to create a separate warnings post and (if necessary) link to it from every installment.
Alternatively, if you want to place the warning in the same post, or if have a table of contents where you want to place the warnings, just put them in white type. Then tell your readers to highlight the entire page if they want to read the warnings. (Control-A or Command-A.)
I surveyed folks at various slash lists once about whether they wanted warnings. Half said they did; half said they didn't. The ones who said they didn't stated they were fine with warnings being given as long as they were hidden from view.
Interestingly, a lot of the people who wanted the warning did so because they were using them like the erotica fiction world's story codes: so that they could find the stuff they liked. They wanted a death warning because they liked deathfic; they wanted a BDSM warning because they liked BDSMfic.
Because of this, I know that there are readers reading my warnings in order to find what they like, not because they necessarily like spoilers. I also have the problem that my warnings make my stories sound a lot more depressing than they actually are. And I've dealt with the problem that
So I've come up with a boilerplate warning (labelled as such) that warns but doesn't provide spoilers:
"I write hurt/comfort, angstfic, and darkfic. Many of my stories deal with the topic of abuse, death, or voluntary submission. All of my stories feature love or respect, though sometimes it takes a while to get there."
That covers the difficult topics which are most likely to arise in my stories: death, rape, physical abuse, severe violence, and power dynamics. For anything else, I add an extra warning.
Oh, by the way, I warn for religious references. I found when I was a reporter that the three topics most likely to tick people off are the traditional ones: sex, politics, and religion.
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Date: 2007-01-05 07:32 am (UTC)From:Re: LJ-cuts are a fanfic writer's best friend
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Date: 2007-01-05 12:10 am (UTC)From:I love spoilers and warnings. Give me more of them!
But having said that, one of the reasons I do love spoilers in fanfic is because I know there are places the show won't go. But there's nowhere that fanfic won't go.
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Date: 2007-01-05 01:33 am (UTC)From:While I agree that warnings can act as spoilers, I also think they are a necessary evil. Yes, most fiction books and/or movies don't come with a warning label on them. However, they do come with opportunities to research them beforehand, in the way of reviews, author interviews, and word of mouth, that most fic does not offer. With most fic, all you've got before you is a link to a story written by someone you most likely do not know. Thus, you need some sort of information to gain an indication of what you're getting yourself into.
Ratings are helpful, but typically too vague to provide much information, and the same goes for many adult sites' classification policies. Hence, like it or not, warnings are usually a fic reader's best selection tool when it comes to choosing to read a fic. Nothing else is specific enough to let you know what might be ahead of you.
Also, while some warnings may seem like they're about silly things, others are not. Again, like it or not, there are child abuse survivors out there who don't appreciate either underage or incest fic. There are rape survivors who don't appreciate non-con, BDSM, or slave fic. There are even people who've fought in wars who don't want to read torture fic or other things that risk triggering attacks of PTSD. I know people who fall under all of these categories, and I myself qualify for at least one.
Speaking for myself, I don't care if you don't warn me that you're going to kill Character A three-quarters of the way through the fic. However, if you're going to have a child raped at that same point and there's no warning, you can expect to receive an email from me, and I can assure you I will *not* be happy. Also, you can be assured that I won't care if what I say pisses you off. I have too much perspective as what's really frightening in the world to care about that thing. I just don't want you causing pain to others like me who aren't as apt to speak up about it happens.
Thus to me, warnings are a system of mutual protection. They allow readers to skip things they have an aversion to, and they allow writers to write what they want without having to worry about the Censorship Cavalry, such as the people who were ranting against incest a little while back, riding in and trying to paint these fic writers as perversion spreading freaks. My response to them was that I am an SN fan and yet I have never been fooled into reading anything I don't want to read, because most Wincest is very clearly marked. In this way, specific warnings make it possible for writers to do what they want, because they put the burden on readers to take personal responsibility for what they click and read.
In other words, it's thanks to warnings that I have no right to cry "My eyes!" after I've waltzed past a sign I should have stopped and read. I also have no right to throw rocks at you, even if you're doing something I don't like.
I just ask that you don't lead me down a dark path and then drop something heavy and unpleasant on me. Because then, I'll have no choice but to ride with the Censorship Cavalry to keep myself safe, and believe me, that's the last thing in the world I want to do.
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Date: 2007-01-05 01:36 am (UTC)From:Should be "when it happens."
I hate LJ sometimes. *sigh*
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Date: 2007-01-06 02:43 am (UTC)From:I'll give you that most of the onus for avoiding emotionally disturbing stuff in our reading material is on the reader, but if authors don't provide warnings, said reader has no way of knowing what to avoid. It's the reason why some television stations will flash an extra warning for disturbing content before they depict seriously gross things like a guy getting his arm cut off by a propeller on ER--so that those viewers who are likely to throw up if subjected to graphic violence and severed limbs can change the channel.
Granted, I'm very heavily biased, but I think there's a difference between ruining someone's fic-reading experience and ruining her entire day, which rapefic/deathfic/incestfic/other un-anticipated badness can do for some people. Having once dissolved into hysterical tears upon reading a fic where a major character got (unwarned for) cancer mere weeks after a relative of mine had died of lung cancer, I'm with the pro-spoiler people and probably always will be. I'd trade a dozen surprise twist endings for the ability to go back and undo that particular experience. And I'd rather annoy and turn off some potential readers than cause someone serious emotional distress (though that's an easy claim for me to make, since I write pretty tame fic with little to wanr for--I imagine it's a harder judgement call for people who write darker or more graphic stuff).
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Date: 2007-01-06 05:12 am (UTC)From:Fair enough. Genre, tone, style. All that helps me decide if I'm in the mood for that particular story.
But details? Major plot twists or character actions? Consider:
Beth and Little Nell die.
Rhett rapes Scarlett.
Norman Bates kills Marion Crane.
And none of those stories are actually about those incidents. They are plot elements. None of the authors or directors thought they had to be warned for and they were right. Fiction is a journey with only the vaguest of signposts. If you don't want to deal with the unexpected or surprising, stay home and look at other people's slides.
Thus endeth the ramble.